June 21,2022

  Hello! From the last month of photos & updates, you can see that life (outside of our home) is taking on activities that were not out of the ordinary, before last year. Well, actually Covid brought things to an abrupt halt the year before, which took a lot of pressure off of having to respond to social requests or obligations.

  So recently, between feeling stronger & having opportunities to participate in family, social & community events, the light at the end of the tunnel is definitely getting brighter. Although, its certainly not ‘full speed ahead’! It’s so important that I listen to what my heart, head & body tell me. I’m grateful that I don’t lament over the things I know I just cannot do. ‘Thank You, God!’

  The social me is not the same. I’m not up to long discussions or heavy topics. There are often times, I just can’t be around people. Thankfully, our anniversary celebrations were not demanding at all, which allowed me to enjoy very relaxed visits. Last Saturday, being Santa & Nana Claus, was just right. We smiled & waved at children, interacted with them for little visits. I really enjoyed saying hello & welcoming strangers. I crashed when I got home, playing back the sweet little faces we encountered through the day. I was rejuvenated & inspired by the young men & women who worked so hard & creatively put on an amazing day for hundreds of guests. Our generation of course were well represented among those rolling up their sleeves, but it was refreshing to have the load shared with folks of all ages.

 For 3 weeks now, Larry & I have gone to Luke 15 House (recovery house for men with addictions). I started going there in 2005 & am always grateful for the gift that these men are to me. I facilitate a one-hour group with residents. Faces often change from week to week, & a few I’ve known over the years. This has always been a life-giving opportunity, in sharing this time of hope & healing with the men. And, because we’re out in Surrey, Larry & I go for a galivant afterwards.

  About the ‘not being the same socially’. It’s something I’m hearing, due to the huge demands & adjustments Covid created in ways of sharing our lives with others. For those who struggle with long term effects of ‘any’ illness, it’s a lot to balance when it comes to social exchanges with others, when weakness, fatigue, pain, sadness, anxiety & more heaviness weigh us down. Giving others who suffer in any way, the benefit of the doubt, showing love, compassion & patience, are gifts much needed from others. If you find yourself struggling with some of these challenges, I pray that you have the gift of peace & perseverance through any trial and know that you are loved!  I love you! God bless you!